The idea of measurement is a key theme in Hindu mythology: three measures of man are not quite the three measures of God.
Violence is hurting the physical body. Violation is hurting the mental and social body.
Why do we assume that every member of civil society will respond exactly the same way? Why do we get upset when others do not react the same way as we do?
If we figure out what makes humans choose some actions and avoid other actions, we will be able to monetize it.
Following habits of successful leaders only makes us pretenders.