He lied to me about everything
I was in a relationship with a guy whom I trusted a lot. He lied to me about everything while it was not the same from my side. He later on said that all we had between us was not to be taken seriously at all and that it was just a prank as a friend. I don’t talk to him anymore but it is getting difficult for me to concentrate on anything else. I’ve tried my best to move on but it’s useless. Please help!
Priya / Pune
Dear Priya, I hope you will learn from this experience not to trust people too soon and too much. Your relationship with that boy was just an infatuation. True love grows in time and makes people responsible and faithful. The consequences for you now are: a broken relationship (“I don’t talk to him anymore”) and loss of concentration “on anything else”. Infatuation makes people blind and unable to take the right decisions. Awake from your dreams and move on to the reality of your life.
Dr Anthony Grugni, MD, was associated with The Teenager Today for nearly three decades in the capacity of youth counsellor.
