Inspiring Lives

Sindhutai: Mother of orphans

Sindhutai kissing two small children

“Let no one ever come to you without leaving better and happier. Be the living expression of God’s kindness: kindness in your face, kindness in your eyes, and kindness in your smile.”
~ Mother Teresa

Sindhutai Sapkal is much more than just a name. Sharing her birthday with Jawaharlal Nehru, the 70-year-old lady hides many stories behind her strong personality. Full of energy and passion, she is referred to as “Mother of Orphans” and as she talks about her life and her children you can see the pain, troubles and miseries she has faced and overcome with her hard work during her lifetime. But, from all the emotions you see on her face, an unusual sense of confidence which she has derived over the years through her experience is something you get inspired by.

Sindhutai feeding children

“I am there for all those who have no one,” she says with affection. You can see flashes of her life as she talks about her journey and how she became “mother”. Being an unwanted child, she was nicknamed “Chindhi” which means ‘torn piece of cloth’. Though her father was keen on educating her, she could not continue her studies after fourth grade due to family responsibilities. She got married at the tender age of ten to a thirty-year-old man. Her abusive husband beat her up and threw her out of the house when she was twenty, and nine months pregnant. She gave birth to a baby girl in a cow shelter outside their house the same day and walked a few kilometres in that condition to her mother’s place, who refused to give her shelter. “I cut the umbilical cord with a sharp-edged stone lying nearby,” she recalls. She thought of committing suicide, but gave up that thought and started begging at railway platforms for food to look after her daughter.

Sindhutai reading to small children

Can you believe that she has now changed the lives of thousands of people! Till date she has adopted and nurtured over 1,400 orphans, helped them get education, got them married and supported them to settle down in life. She is fondly referred to as “mai” (mother). The children are not given up for adoption. She treats them as her own and some of them are now lawyers, doctors and engineers.

The circumstances she has faced could force anyone to lose courage and succumb to the adverse situations. But Sindhutai emerged stronger with every difficulty she faced and became a ‘mother’ to over 1400 homeless children, when she herself was in a hand-to-mouth situation. With her love and compassion, she has gathered a huge family of 207 sons-in-law, 36 daughters-in-law and over 1000 grandchildren. Till date she continues to fight for the next meal. She does not take support from anyone but gives speeches to earn her daily bread and butter. “By God’s grace I had good communication skills. I could talk to people and influence them. Hunger made me speak and this became my source of income. I give many talks at various places and this gets me some money which I use to take care of my children,” she says.

Born in Pimpri Meghe village in Wardha district of Maharashtra, she was keen on completing her education and used Bharadi tree leaves to write as the family could not afford a slate. Her early marriage put an end to her desire to study. “I was told there are only two processions in a woman’s life; once when she gets married and the other when she dies. Imagine my state of mind when they took me in a procession to my husband’s home in Navargaon forest in Wardha,” she says.

While begging, she realized that there are many children abandoned by their parents. Having faced difficulties herself, she could feel their pain and she decided to adopt them. She started begging more earnestly in order to feed the many children that she had adopted. Gradually she decided to adopt every child who came across as an orphan and, over a period of time, she emerged as the “mother of orphans”. “When I was out myself on the streets begging for food and fighting for survival each day, I realized that there are so many orphans who have nobody to go to. I decided to take care of them and raise them as my own,” Sindhutai says.

To eliminate the feeling of partiality among children she gave away her biological daughter to Shrimant Dagdu Sheth Halwai, Pune. Her daughter herself runs an orphanage today. Many years later, her husband came back to her and apologized for his harsh deeds. Having devoted all her life to the orphans, she forgave him and accepted him as her ‘child’, as she could only harbour motherly love for all. She affectionately introduces her aged husband as the eldest child!

Sindhutai with young girls

She has six organizations operating under her name which work towards various needs of orphans. “I had no one with me, everyone abandoned me. I knew the pain of being alone and unwanted. I didn’t want anyone to go through the same. And I feel immense pride and pleasure to see some of my children doing so well in their lives. One of my children made a documentary on my life,” she says. Her life’s story inspired many and a Marathi film called Mee Sindhutai Sapkal was made on her life which won a national award. She has received over 500 awards for her extraordinary support to orphans. Whatever amount she received as awards, she used it to construct homes for her children. The construction is still going on and she is constantly looking for more help from across the globe to give shape to her dreams. “I approached the Maharashtra government several times for help but I never received it. I used to beg earlier to fulfil the needs of my children and I will continue to do so,” she says.

The unusual life of Sindhutai is an inspiration for all of us. Even after facing so many hardships, she stood tall and made her way into everyone’s heart. She proved that if you are dedicated, nothing can stop you from changing the lives of thousands of people around you. We salute this brave lady and hope that the country gives birth to many more such strong daughters and mothers.

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Major (Retd.) Pradeep Khare is a veteran of the Indian Army. He has authored two inspirational books Real Inspiring Stories and Unsung Heroes. He writes a motivational blog Fragrance Of Success and runs a motivational YouTube channel Guldasta. He can be reached at

Maj. (Retd) Pradeep Khare

Major (Retd.) Pradeep Khare is a veteran of the Indian Army. He has authored two inspirational books Real Inspiring Stories and Unsung Heroes. He writes a motivational blog Fragrance Of Success and runs a motivational YouTube channel Guldasta. He can be reached at