I still have feelings for him

I was in a relationship with a guy for one month. He broke up with me because of some misunderstandings. Then after eight months he proposed to me again. After some time he said, “Our thinking doesn’t match and we should only be friends.” I accepted his friendship. But I still have feelings for him. What should I do?
Fiza (14)

Dear Fiza, your relationship with this boy has been marked since the beginning by “misunderstandings”. Besides, he felt that “our thinking doesn’t match” and that you “should only be friends”. Accept his words and be his good friend. At the age of 14 feelings come and go. You cannot impose your feelings on others.

Dr Anthony Grugni, MD
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Dr Anthony Grugni, MD

Dr Anthony Grugni, MD, has a degree in medicine and is a professional counsellor. For the last 30 years he has been providing youth with practical advice to help them tackle urgent and troubling issues.