I was in a long distance relationship with a boy for two months. He loved me, too. When my mom came to know about it she said ‘yes’ but I never had the time to talk to him neither on Facebook nor on Whatsapp nor on the phone as I am a dance choreographer, too. He thought I had changed and that I didn’t love him. But I still love him and I want him back in my life. It’s been five months since we broke up and he acts as if nothing was there between us. After our break-up he had a relationship with another girl but although that ended recently he loves her. I want him to realize that his decision to leave me was wrong and that I still love him. He hates me now and doesn’t want to see me at all. What should I do?
Dear Saira, in two months you have built a dream of love with a boy, a “long distance relationship”. Due to your busy schedule: “I am a dance choreographer”, you never had the time to talk to him, not even on the phone. Your long silence made him feel that you did not love him and your relationship broke up since five months. Afterwards he moved on to another relationship. You feel that he hates you now and doesn’t want to see you at all, yet you still love him and want him back in your life. You have to make a choice between concentrating on a relationship and making it grow or concentrating on your busy schedule which prevents you from finding the time to talk to those whom you love. The choice is yours.